We bury a friend today.
She was just 34 years old. Fighting fit and full of life.
Then a week ago she just dropped dead.
Tragic.
Her father is a good friend of mine and he is understandably distraught. Is there anything crueler than outliving your children?
It is the second time in the last year that I have been so shockingly reminded of our tenuous mortality. Two days before Christmas last year a life-long friend and mentor was almost killed in a horrific cycling accident when a car plowed into his group. Today he is still recovering and his life will never be the same. The fact he even survived is amazing.
That first incident went a long way to convincing me that life is too short, and you never know when your time is up. I soon decided to take a new approach to life. To savour it. To be thankful for what I have and to make the most of my time on this earth. My Perfect Life Project was born out of near tragedy.
Now, once again, I have been reminded of how fleeting life can be.
It is a reminder to ask myself, what is really important in life?
To re-affirm my commitment to my family and friends.
To re-affirm my commitment to living as richly and fully as possible.
Life is too short.
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There was a great piece of advice at the service....
"Plan to live forever but live like you might die tomorrow."